Bedroom Bust-up
I love my partner very much, he's one of the kindest, most talented men I've ever met, but he's amazing everywhere except the bedroom and it's driving me to drink!
What can I do here, I love my man so much but the sex just isn't happening! Are we doomed?
Doomed you are definitely not. Not only can old dogs be taught new tricks but it can be tons of fun doing it. Of course male ego is not known for its ability to take sexual critique lying down so to speak, so a little feminie wiliness is required. Start off by telling him you have seen a show on TV that said, 'statistics show that couples who are not afraid to say what they like in bed are 85% more likely to stay together and have fulfilling sex lives.
Tell him you have always wanted to feel like you please him the way HE wants, and you would really appreciate if he could help you fine tune your skills by verbalising what he likes best. Any gent worth their salt will return the favour, but here is the kicker. Rather than saying "Ok so it's my turn, by the way you suck at this", engineer it so he believes your suggestions are really HIS innate ability to find new ways to drive you wild, "lower, lower, Ohh my God, how did you know that's the spot, you're a genius!!".
ENJOY ;-)
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