Cocky Funny

You're right, cocky funny does float the boat of many a maiden. Truth is women kind actually have more depth than that, and what they are actually attracted to is the energy a guy gives off. How it is expressed isn't really that important. Have you never looked at the shy mysterious girl in the corner and thought 'Wow she is different. Not like all the loud mouths'. Women do the same!

You don't need to be confident like Casanova or funny like Jim Carrey - You only need to be confident about being you! Silent, serious whatever. Think about it. When you wake you are 100% YOU right? Who else could you be? So then step out and be confident of that. Just think about people you are yourself around - I bet they think you're confident enough! So rather than projecting fear or a faux confidence trying to be someone else, relax. Be 100% you. Your energy will show through regardless. Sure girls will be fooled a time or two by the players, but if you keep bouncing back they get it in the end.