Zoning Out

Your best bet is to use an old politician's technique for coming back after a bad run. When we associate someone with a certain emotion like, friend, lover or enemy our brain imprints these emotions so next time it can just reach for the template with your name on and know all it needs to know about you. That's the essence of the feeling of familiarity - the more you do it the stronger it gets. So to break this and re wire her perception your job is to get her brain used to associating you with emotions more conducive to being a partner. Excitement, mystery, sensuality, sexiness, alpha traits.

Start to dress a little different: snappier, be more assertive about life. Don't make big changes as she will notice these just keep things subtle. However every now and then throw in a few curve ball comments to break her perception. Things like 'You look good enough to eat today' or 'You really have mesmerising eyes, Have I ever told you that'?. Basically extreme compliments delivered in a throw away fashion. Almost like casual observations. Before you know it she will have reprogrammed her perception of you enough to make your move. Just remember - Who dares wins!!