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my input
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Posted by:
anzacbub
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Date:
Jul 17, 2007
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well on other dating sites, when a woman got in contact with me, if they didn't have a picture, I would pick the flirt/kiss/wink that says that their picture is hot. But only as I see it in a joking way like "come on, put a picture there" rather than asking directly.
And if I don't get a response or whatever..I really don't care, i'm not desperate or needy of attention like some people are, so if women take the comment as sleazy or whatever else, I generally don't bother.
I should note that I don't always do this either! some people I just pick the one I want to send, the one i'd like to know about or the one that best fits what I would like to say.
And I think that there is a big HUGE problem with dating sites and the kisses and winks and stuff, because it makes you sound SO DESPERATE and like a sleaze.
It makes me wonder if the people who create the dating sites even know how things work in terms of attraction or interest.
I don't like nearly every single comment that comes with a wink or flirt, because they are just so damn typical and predictable.
As for the actual topic, what makes you think that you know what the other people are interested in. I don't think that people are LAZY for not sending a wink to you, it just means they're not all that interested in what they see.
Deal with it, keep your chin up high and move on, it's just a dating site, there is a real world outside the window.
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