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Posted by:
d1ckkn0b
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Date:
May 08, 2008
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hurray ..1st post !
just read ur profile (and saw ur pic too ofcourse-pretty !) P-Ivii.
you mentioned that you are NOT looking for creeptastic, asshole, a complete square or a 45yr old mama's boy. your age range 25-49.
Now, you may find this guy with a profile pic, absolutely appealing. lets say around 32. His profile does not state a whole lot but you are interested. Start a conversation, go out with him all is well until suddenly you realise that he is a pro gambler, addicted to strip clubs, and has stopped showering affection on you ---bad !!
Now there was this guy -lets say around 25, similar profile minus the pic.
He contacted you - you seemed less interested, you did not pay much attention. That guy was infact a very well cultured, down to earth with no hangups. But there was no spark, since his picture was not on the profile, and when it was supplied to you, he wasn't your real life Brad Pitt as the 30yr old.
So the effort went vain !
your question I'd answer it by taking my own example here.
1.I have not put a pic up there, infact not written a tiny bit in the profile, since ive only just signed up to this thing. I have been busy so haven't had a chance to update the profile, shall do so at the earliest.
2. When i do update the profile, I am most probably, not ,going to upload a pic. I do not want a female to make a decision- yes or no, based on my photo. I would rather date a woman who would take a moment to actually read my profile (when its updated ofcourse) and see if she would consider me as an option.
you may say that being practical we all need to have physical attraction and whatever else, well, a photo would be supplied at request but only after she has read the profile and made a positive decision.
A pretty face could have serious real life issues. So a woman may end up with a loser just because her "thought" was overpowered by the man's good/bad looks.
And that is not the kind of woman i am after.
As for me, although i do care about the kind of women i date, as long as i am
intellectually stimulated by her presence, i dont care what she looks like.
3. Some people might not put up a pic as they may not have a photogenic face, as stupid as it sounds, its very true. My personal experience with a girl i knew -an absolute goddess, but each time her pic made her look dull and old.
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