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cutting someones grass
Posted by: notfussy Date: Jun 12, 2006
Hi all members male and female can help me with this one.Im 30 yo male ive been seeing a nice lady who is older than me (by 5 years) but we have so much in common and im finding my feelings getting stronger and stronger for he everyday,she has a heart of gold and is absolutely gorgeous.HOWEVER shes married and it is getting very difficult what do you suggest I do?
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cutting someones grass
Posted by: sexyseniorita1 Date: Jun 13, 2006
as with any relationship, regardless of age, this is a hard area. what are her feelings for you? Does she have any children to her husband? The answers to these questions will give you an indication of the likelihood of her leaving her husband but you need to find out soon as the longer you leave the harder it will be for you. However the fact that she is seeing you likely means that she is unhappy in her current situation but you still need to determine where you stand.

there is also an article you might like to read on the site about younger men, I think its in the community section

good luck!
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leave her
Posted by: bigzz Date: Jun 21, 2006
not only is she older but has a family. Don’t bother with her or she will do the same to you one day
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Posted by: romeomustdie Date: Jul 10, 2006
Hi
I know u r in a sticky situation....first of all you have to make your mind up whether you like her enough to be with her with a family or if she has kids...If u think u r comfortable with that and she says yes then its entirely upto you , you are the one to decide , its very hard when you have smoke screens around you and you cant see through at times but once the honeymoon period is over its not gonna be easy for you....
So its upto you to decide i was only pointing out to the other side of the picture.
As for if it was me i would consider everything and would still be vary of going ahead with it unless i know dep inside that yes, she is the one and i am happy to accept her with kids (if she has).
sheraz
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interesting
Posted by: romeomustdie Date: Jul 10, 2006
Hi
I know u r in a sticky situation....first of all you have to make your mind up whether you like her enough to be with her with a family or if she has kids...If u think u r comfortable with that and she says yes then its entirely upto you , you are the one to decide , its very hard when you have smoke screens around you and you cant see through at times but once the honeymoon period is over its not gonna be easy for you....
So its upto you to decide i was only pointing out to the other side of the picture.
As for if it was me i would consider everything and would still be vary of going ahead with it unless i know dep inside that yes, she is the one and i am happy to accept her with kids (if she has).
sheraz
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she’s married!
Posted by: newiefella Date: Mar 17, 2007
You shouldn’t be seeing her in the first place, she’s married!

Cut it off quick and hope that there are no children involved, otherwise you will forever more be the man who split up their mum and dad.

Suck it up, it will hurt you for a while but you will get over it.....

Don’t destroy the lives of any children.

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move on you shouldn't have to share
Posted by: wanting_it_all Date: Nov 19, 2007
you are past the stage of wanting friendship, and yes she is married

even if she was to leave her current situation she would have to have some time to get to know herself again,

whats to stop her doing the same to you, Im sure she was really happy to start with in her relationship

do yourself a favour, it may hurt but better for you in the long run
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