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	do looks really matter???
	Posted by: MissLolly87	Date: Feb 14, 2007
	hey all....so if u met a guy/girl that your first impression was that ur not attracted to them very much,but started to get to know them and found that ur in TOTAL love with their personality and just basically what makes them the person they are...would u be able to look past their looks and still want to start a relationship with them or do u think in todays society ppl are not accepting of the not so "perfect person"and in that case u woodnt bother???...well anyway think ya’ll get the picture...opinions would be greatly appreciated..thanxx
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	hmm looks
	Posted by: goddy_84	Date: Feb 15, 2007
	you ask if looks matter? you say your into them ! you say not so "perfect person" in the eyes of others ! 1. looks is a part of todays greatest assets if you have them you seem to have a upper hand, if you dont its hard to even get talking to the other sex yetalone pick up. hence the use of sites like this for all types of ppl to meet someone. with out the fact of looks being a strong point what do we have ? our own personality . and i say if thats not enough then what is . no one is perfect in the eyes of everyone only in the eyes of there loved ones can someone be perfect . i say a lot of shit but if u are TOTAL in love with his/her personality then i’d say yeh just shut your eyes lol jokes lol go for it ey.....’) mick
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	thanxx
	Posted by: MissLolly87	Date: Feb 15, 2007
	thanxx heaps dood....appreciate it...glad someone actually wrote back 2 me....hehe but yeh i see what your saying...and i definatly agree,shallow situation i know but thats life hay.....thanxx alot...Take it easy
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	Posted by: army75	Date: Mar 04, 2007
	Hey lolly I unfortunately think looks are a big part of society today. I think if you’re not a good looking person nowadays, you are definitely disadvantaged in finding a partner. Personally looks aren’t the most important thing to me, but there must be at least some sort of attraction(however mild it might be). I don’t rate myself as being an extremely attractive person(not ugly, but not model material), but there needs to be at least a slight attraction looks wise as well as what’s on the inside. So to answer your question, I can look past the looks as long as the woman isn’t REALLY, REALLY butt ugly. I have no problem with plain looking people as such, but wouldn’t be able to get past the fact someone was obese or something like that. There are definitely a lot of shallow people out there. I think because I’m not a tanned, muscular, macho man that works out at the gym everyday, I don’t get a look in with some women. I’m a great person who treats people with respect and I’m sure women love that, but the trick is getting the opportunity to show that side to a person. I dunno if that sorta answers your question or not, lol. Just trying to speak my mind. Dan
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	Looks do matter
	Posted by: notinuse	Date: Apr 03, 2007
	Simple question I ask myself "if I went out with my mates and a girl, would I be proud, or embarised" that’s the way I feel. Not being pretentious, but you wouldn’t make an effort to go across the room and talk to someone that was grossly overweight or like was mentioned "but ugly". Personally, If I’m not attracted, it just won’t happen
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	Posted by: Indy_Andy	Date: Apr 10, 2007
	If you fall head over heels in love with someone then theortically looks shouldn’t matter. That said - if you love someone despite the way they look, then you’re kidding yourself and doing the both of you a disservice. Looks aren’t going to last forever on anyone so really shouldn’t be the main criteria by which to choose a life partner. A heck of a lot of people nowadays are living into their 90’s - you’d hate to have married a total bitch / asshole who was really hot at the age of 20, ’cause there’s a lot of years for them to become really ugly, and you’ll be spending a lot of time hanging around with their personality after that happens...
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	they do to an extent
	Posted by: Swoop1983	Date: May 17, 2007
	the saying goes love is seeing an imperfect person as perfect and that is so true. A person who you may have thought was average looking but with a great personality may become the best looking person in the world to u whereas a hot guy with a shallow personality can become the ugliest. I have experienced this and it is oh so true. Looks do matter to me but at the same time I am not so shallow to not give someone a chance who I think is merely average as you just never know the goldmine you will find behind them. (gosh I am writing so much in the forums today)
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	mis lolly
	Posted by: lord_vladimere	Date: May 13, 2008
	hun looks arent wat maketh the person.Its all about there personality n well if we lived our lives to what others think n say we wldnt have much of a life now wld we.I'd say go for it dear and b damnd those that dont like your choice after all tis you that has to b wth the person not thm. i kinow i can look past a persons outside apperance and see there inner bueaty. hope it all wrks n runs well for you sweetheart. VLADIMERE XXX
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