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guys and girls??! opinions required :P
Posted by: opinionatedgrrl Date: Apr 22, 2008
This is a semi vent but a question also.

If you are single and have a great group of friends and then you find a partner and he or she makes you cease contact with friends, would you?

I have been great friends with 3 males for years and years. Each of them have a girlfriend and each girl hates me talking to their partner. It is so frustrating. If they send me a text or call I feel like the 'other women' who is out to get their man or something. I am not though.. ewwwwwwww at the thought

I would love to explain further, but I have a few certain someones who read what I write here so don't wanna ark anything else up

Each partner I have, I make sure they know my friends are a priority so don't even think of getting in between of the friendships

GGRrrrrrrrr I am so cross at the moment. These girls have no idea how much I DON'T want their man, and I am in no line of threat to them whatsoever. I wish these guys would grow some balls and not be so pussy whipped and speak up....!!

Vent over.
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in short NO!
Posted by: Syd_MVP Date: Apr 29, 2008
no way would i stop being someone friend for any reason other than i dont want to be their friend anymore. no person or situation should force you away from your friends. these women just soind jealous and insecure....is this the kind of woman you want ur friend to be dating?! well dont go too far by getting hitmen involved or anything but yeah perhaps you could say something to your friend.
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Insecure
Posted by: gis3ll3 Date: May 06, 2008
I think it all just stems from insecuritues that these girls have. I don't get it cos I am good friends with a couple of guys and they've got the balls to tell their GFs that I am just a friend and they plan to still soclalise with me when appropriate. Of course they don't make it a point of trying to see me on my own. If we catch up these days, it's usually as a group at a bar or pub or mutual friend's parties.
Sometimes you gotta just cut ties. If these guys are such wusses, cut them loose I say.
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insecurity much?
Posted by: natfran Date: Jun 21, 2008
Lol. definately sounds like a silly situation. It's easy to say to just ignore it but it's a bit hard to when they're in your face about it.

Best thing you could probably do is keep being a friend to your mates, if their girlfriends are really that jealous, then they must be really insecure, and unless the guys are desperate and insecure, then I don't think they would put up with that for much longer.

On the other hand, you COULD be helping your mates relationship out, because jealousy in a relationship is not always a bad thing.
So yeh, just try and relax and if your mates girlfriends can't get over the whole jealousy issue, just keep doing whatever you're doing.
Don't let them change your relationship with your friends.
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/nod
Posted by: LithiumRinse Date: Jun 23, 2008
Definate insecurity. Recently I lost the love of my life to his girlfriend, who is now his wife, and even though she has the ring on her finger, she won't let him see me because we have a history.
Any man/woman who makes you stop talking/seeing someone without a legitimate reason (like they're hurting you), should be shown the door.
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